New Year's Blues

Talking about two R’s of the New Year’s holiday led me to helpful tips for managing unpleasant emotions.

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Recognizing Obstacles to Hope

In Why Don’t I Feel Hope? I talk about hopelessness as a physical problem. If changes in the brain block the proper firing of brain cells needed to experience hope, willpower and/or spiritual faith may not be enough (just as a severed spinal cord makes it impossible to move the legs)—no matter how much patients want to feel hope.

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Walking with Hope

My dream was for every patient to get free personalized exercise training and support. With hope of making a real difference now, I’d set the bar low: Write something that motivated patients to walk at least 10 minutes twice a day while in cancer treatment. The challenge was….

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Personal Note

This blog is designed to share a physician-survivor’s perspective on getting good care and living as fully as possible while dealing with a health challenge. When I share personal stories of my successess and failures, it’s not for you to learn about me. My aim is to encourage you to think about your own challenges in ways that help you find the best path for you to make your life the best it can be.

Today, I’m making an exception by posting a personal update.

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Ten-Minute Blech Sessions

At times, my emotions get stirred up over something trivial. When I’m overreacting, I tell myself, Wait! This is not a big deal. Often that’s enough for the wave of emotion to break and for me to regain my emotional footing. When such emotions don’t abate, instead of fighting them or trying to suppress them, I find a safe place for a time-limited blech session. As the title emphasizes: Ten minutes, at most.

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